LOVE IS LOUDER THAN THE PRESSURE TO BE PERFECT

My blog, Perfection is Passion is a blog where I could write about anything I can to inspire people.That was my vision when I first decided to blog and it still is my vision and to that I pursuit it through writing.

Writing changes someone's character because writing makes us express ourselves.

I like expressing myself. I like to understand humanity more and to find my purpose in life as well.

I'm still confuse at some point and I do feel a little out of place sometimes - Just another way of saying I still don't know, but I'm searching. It's one of my goals.

We all have different goals, goals that are high to reach when we put it high to get and we work hard for it and we do whatever it takes to get it. Like getting good grades, winning a goal medal or even get married. - That is a goal too. These are the things that makes life interesting. Life should be amazing no matter how tough it is.

I decided to write PRESSURE TO BE PERFECT because I read a beautiful inspiring story about Demi Lovato and I admired how she could handle her pressure to being perfect. (I will always admire her so much) At the same time, I'm seeing everyone that I know are stopping themselves to being perfect just because they have something that they don't like and its pressuring them. We all have problems and there's always a solution to it no matter what. First off, Nobody is PERFECT and life CANNOT be perfect but we just have this feeling that we want to be perfect.

Being Perfect is just a way to be accepted by everyone. - Anonymous.

We always want the best for ourselves and that we always try and try and sometimes too much pressure could make us lose control and having a mental breakdown. Because we want to be accepted. We all want to feel good about ourselves but insecurity hits us back every time.

 I have insecurities too and I'm insecure about my skin. I have eczema and I hate how dry and scaly my skin can be. It broke me down and wishing that I never had eczema.

 I'm afraid I wont be accepted and I'm afraid I wont be beautiful.

Every girl in this world wants to be beautiful. I'm upset to know that some girls would starve themselves just because they can't accept their weight and appearance. They can't handle those mean words from other people. They have eating disorders because of that and its blocking them to feel perfect by being normal.

Your not perfect because your not that model in the magazine, your not perfect because your not the girl with the perfect everything. Your not perfect because you don't get what you want and mostly your not perfect because you can't accept yourself. All this are bad thoughts and negatives statement to make us stop believing in ourselves and it brings us down. Always remember to never compare ourselves with someone else.

N whats worst is that it makes us depress. Some people can't handle the pressure around them till they decide to end the pressure in the easy yet a bad way, suicide. People who are depress often feels lonely and they just wish someone else is there to understand them. Their not attention seekers. They just needed someone to listen.

I've known some people who are under depression and its not very nice to know that they would cut both their wrists just to release their pain. I use to have suicidal thoughts myself before. I've gone through a lot of bad things in the past and I even cry myself to sleep.

Crying is not always a sign that your weak, sometimes its just that you've been strong for holding your pain for too long and there's a time where you have to let it go. Well I rather cry than to have suicidal thoughts again. I was stupid enough to Google "HOW TO DIE"

- If your a close friend to me, I'm sure you know that I'm a psycho friend.

Whenever I feel insecure now, I just take it as a challenge and that I would learn to overcome it.

I know I can't be perfect but I try to be and its nothing wrong with trying. I believe that I'm different and special the way I am. For start, always be yourself,

You be the judge to yourself and take every hardships a lesson to learn.  

LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT.

If your born with color blindness, born with freckles, born with an un-perfect feature, born with a bad vision that you need to wear glasses etc .

Still do not stop loving yourself. Don't make the small things put you to waste.

Make life the fullest and be happy no matter what.

Do something you love doing, maybe paint your room or play music, sing and dance and anything that makes you happy. If you want to be pretty you need a pretty heart.

Start forgiving your enemies, its alright as long as you move on. Ask that guy you like to go out with you or tell the girl that you have a crush on that you love her.

It doesn't matter what you do, just make life a joyful thing and always look at the brighter side of things. 

Believe that there's always a bright side in every darkness.

LOVE is LOUDER than The Pressure to be PERFECT - DEMI LOVATO.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

THE ART OF LOVE

LOVE, is a special day,

WE should celebrate, and appreciate.

A nice song from Kina Grannis though many of us still haven't found the exact right meaning of LOVE.
Actually there is but LOVE has a lot of meaning from many people. 

Different people with different experience of love have different meanings of Love. 

 Love can be anything and its always best to feel in with the heart.


I've always admire love like the movies. 

How simple yet elegant the story line goes especially when it is about Unexpected Love stories and everything looks so easy and simple to get. 

Could you believe it?? Its almost like a fairy tale but in reality, 

Love can be really complicated and nothing like the movies. 

That's why we have love songs to cheer us up!

Songs makes us feel better, that feeling when you sing a long with the lyrics and how sometimes it relates to your life.

Its beautiful, because song writing comes from the heart and sometimes a song can be for that special someone that their inspired to write for. 

Love songs are as beautiful as break up songs. 

The more you feel it the more calm you are and makes us feel easier when were having a hard time.

Its really good to know that were love by someone special and how it motivates us for moving forward. 

Love also helps to motivated us. It keeps us going by being happy. 

So the love quotes are really good, well all quotes are great. 

Their like food our souls. - N it never fails to bright someone up!

The thing about love is that sometimes it might end us up with a broken heart. 

Some love life are great but rare. 

Its nice to know that some people have been loving the same person since the day they first met and their marriage life is great. 

I admire this people, and the fact that it makes the relationship stronger and more admirable and just having one sex partner for the rest of your life. 

Its like the old days, where love seems to be very simple.

Everybody deserves love :)


Jasmin Rayhan.

MY CRAZY MOTHER WHO DRIVES ME CRAZY

You know that movie called Freaky Friday starring Jamie Lee Curtis and Lindsay Lohan?
A story about a mom and a daughter that doesn't seem to have a good mother daughter relationship and both of them don't seem to understand one another and then they switched bodies because of that Chinese Lady that gave them the fortune cookie.
The good old days when Lindsay Lohan was just as innocent as ever. Sad to see her now.


Movies like this have moral values and I think what the movie is trying to tell us is that to settle a difference we have to communicate and understand each other first. The switching bodies just makes the movie look more interesting, instead of imagining yourself in someone else's shoe.


So my mom told me, well she actually dared me to write a blog post about her (she just got herself a new blog) and putting the blog title as MY CRAZY MOTHER WHO DRIVES ME CRAZY.  Firstly, we all have different types of mothers, I just happen to have a crazy one. - QUOTED BY HER.


Everybody have different types of mothers, you just happen to have a crazy one - Mom.


I gotta admit that what my mom said is true. Well I'm on the Edge of 17 and I really just can't seem to understand what my mom wants from me sometimes. N whats worst is that whenever there's a huge situation,  it always starts with an argument and ends with "You don't understand me at all".

Leaves my mom and I annoyed with each other.


Lets go back to communication, its the key to understand one another right? Well yea that's what I'm lack of sometimes. Bonding doesn't help much when there's no communication and to tell you the truth I'm NOT a rebel kid but I can be really rude at times. Its the limits people, which leads me complaining like any other ordinary girl would do. N its the only way for them to listen (if your lucky that is)
plus girls tend to talk more than guys. So let us talk! *sniff*.

My mom is not an ordinary mom, she's not a housewife either but I use to know her as my hero, someone who is headstrong and bold for herself and was never afraid of the future - Or so I thought. Things change and I understand what my mom went through and whats she's going through now. She got a lot of ups and downs. Times are tough for her and I'm always there to catch her when she falls but sometimes the things I do just seems never enough or satisfying for her.


Typical isn't it? How many of you are going through the same thing as I do now? I let myself clueless and all I can do is just sit and be patient. 

I'm not sure if I have readers who are mothers in my blog but that would be cool to know. I just feel like asking each and everyone of the mothers why is it that all of you have to use "You don't understand me" in every single conversation.
Okay we use that in relationships too and living our boyfriends clueless but that's a whole different thing cuz there's always a kiss and make up when it comes to the boy-girl relationship.


Well as some of us would say, its not really nice to know that mothers think that were not trying. In my part, I tried and I give up and whats worst is that there's no trust. Which brings us the TRUST section and believe me, my parents are strict but sometimes I think they don't know what their doing. - I have weird parents. There are some parts where their wrong but you know, they wouldn't want to admit it - Its cuz their "older". See it all ends with age. RESPECT the ELDERLY. What an advantage, imagine life without age, everybody would want to be the boss.


If I ever have a kid of my own, well I can't tell the future and I think its weird to think about marriage and kids now but just as an example, I would rather just talk things out. Well its easy to say it now to some of you elderly parents would think but I've seen other parents and their kids and they seem alright together. I use to have that but I don't have it anymore. Its personal but I got to put my head up high for it.


KIDS. They wont learn till their TEENAGERS. They are ignorant till they decide to change.


I'm just saying, wouldn't it be better? My mom doesn't  trust me and at the rate I'm going through, its getting tough and pretty annoying. Mom was a girl before isn't it? I'm sure she gives trouble to my grandma (yes, my mom was a rebel kid according to my grandma).


Well I know what she's trying to do, I know. She doesn't want me to end up like her and make the same mistakes. Same goes to all the other mothers in the world. They love their kids and they want the best for them and sometimes they get too obsessed until they start to crack and BOOM!


But face it, its our turn now, to make mistakes (well not the same mistakes as them) that's what teenagers should do, make mistakes (not on purpose) and when were wrong just talk to us. We need you in the end of the day. Like a baby bird that wants to fly so much and when it tries to fly alone the baby bird fell and that's when the mommy bird comes.


I've seen books, articles and talk shows about a woman talking about how kids/teens never understand what a mother has to go through. But hey, it might be our fault at times but its your fault too - at times as well.


I love my mom, I do. Just that sometimes I don't get her and I don't see me doing anything wrong anymore what what I've been through for the past 4 years. It was a tough road for my mom and my siblings and I. But everyday is a new a day and I can always put on my ear plugs when she goes grenade bomb all over me -HAHA I'm kidding. :)


How is your mom like?

-Jasmin Rayhan-