LITTLE NOTE: DILEMMA

Would you rather be doing what you love so much and be far apart from the people you love or be with the people you love and do what you are qualified to

but it was not really your dream but a good choice?

The choices that you have to put in life, ends a dilemma and you feel confuse.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

LITTLE NOTE : COMMUNICATION AND UNDERSTANDING

A little note about communication and understanding.


It is a very common thing to talk about and we do need to use it a lot in our daily lives.
Especially working, as I see it on my job that is.
Two things.
Either they LOVE you or they HATE you.


First impression is important and thats one way to let someone judge you,
since some people doesn't practice to NOT judge a book by its cover.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

STANDING ON A HALLWAY

Do you ever feel to always be alone where no one can ever find you,

sitting on a dark place, hearing nothing but only you breathing and 

seeing a little bit of light coming through from a small window, or maybe not.

Just because you want to leave and be in a place where only you would fit in 

because you want to get out from the bad things that happen lately.

You loose your grip and you just want to be all by yourself. 

And you find that it is easier to think and holding back the time.

So sorrow, you wonder to yourself when is all this going to stop.

I'm not actually being emo right now.

 I'm just trying to express a feeling out of the picture on top.

Its all in the heart :)

-Jasmin Rayhan-

A SPECIAL SOMEONE.

This week makes me feel a little special.

Well, I like being special. Everybody deserves to be special too right?

Being special makes you feel good. 

Good about yourself and its not about you being a show off or anything, 

So how do I put it.

Like when your working hard and learning new things, thats what I've been doing now 

until I decide what I really wanna do. 

Its all in plan but I don't wanna rush. I'm really happy with what I'm doing now.

Sometimes when you do something without having anything in return, 

well actually, you do get something in return. 

Instead of getting what you want, it is getting what you need or even putting a smile on someones face. 

Because everything you do will always end up something good. 

I may not get what I want but 

I do get what I need which is love and knowledge and making a special someone happy. 

Thats what I learned this week, you will always get something in return no matter what you do, 

good or bad. AND, I love seeing my mom happy. She is the special someone :)

So who is your special someone?

-Jasmin Rayhan-

A NEW YOU... IS NEVER TOO LATE.

A friend of mine almost had a screw up life. She/he was often crushed by sadness. Sometimes its just hard for her/him, because nobody understands whats up with her/him. People just expect too much and would ignore other people's drama because they don't know how it feels. I don't expect myself as the miracle but all I could be was her/his best friend.


So I told him/her that its alright, I did the comfort, talking it out is the only way and I showed the love. Any friend would do this to their own best friends. That is what friends are for. I don't want her/him to be sad. What everybody needs is happiness.. I knew from the very start, she/he is my best friend. She/he was always there for me no matter what. How often would I get a friend like that. I should be lucky and glad, and I am. Now its my turn to be there for her.


Its never too late for anything. Its your own choice to start on something that you want. Follow your heart is one thing, you got to believe in it too. She/he feels better now. Its great to see her/him to smile again, the laugh he/she had, by then you know, your best friend is alright.


Sometimes in life, it is not only how you felt on something that makes you happy. It is what you do for someone too. So lets be more generous. Its a Chinese New Year. Lets put a smile on people's faces and make the rabbit year something special. Hope everyone had a good holiday and celebrations.

Its FEBRUARY and its CHINESE NEW YEAR!

Year of the Rabbit!

How long was it that I didn't update this blog? Since the last 17 days..

 I'm sorry to disappear. Just like that without any news.

I was so busy with work and time flies when we have fun huh. Okay lame excuse.

I manage to have a great hang out time with the besties.

 I don't get to do much of that nowadays. Advertising is fun, but bull at times.

 I had a great CNY. I'm Chinese Malay so, CNY is part of me too. 

The family bonding, spending quality time with the family. It would be nice to do this often.

The food was amazing. Hey, I LOVE FOOD! Not to mention those awesome red packets. 

Of course, the red packets puts a smile on our faces. 

Sad thing is that I don't get to play with fire crackers :(

Thats pretty much what I did for CNY. Some good quality time. :)

-Jasmin Rayhan-

A JUSTIN BIEBER POST

I was suppose to post this special blog post for the little girls whom I met at work due as a request. I'm sure that you girls have been waiting for this post as I promise. Sorry to kept all of you waiting, I have a superbly busy schedule this days but lucky I got a time off today so here it is, to my little girls who are JB lovers and all the other JB lovers..


I did wrote some little things about JB before in this blog but I guess a full one would be good. So its gonna be all about Justin Bieber now.. Haters please, this is just a request and I love responding to people's request! If you hate this post, send me a request on what you want me to write then. Okay thats pretty much clear...  I'll just start with "What do I think about Justin Bieber?".




First of all, I'm NOT a crazy-in-love fan of JB and I DON'T hate JB either.. Frankly, I actually admire JB and I admit that he is a great performer.. He worked his way up before and now he got help from his Mentor Usher. I don't see him as gay, I don't even know why people think that his a 40 years old dude before too. That is just lame and just because when he started being famous that his voice hasn't crack yet BUT his voice cracked already so thats a good thing for him..


Funny story I'm sure I told you girls before, when I first heard of JB, okay to be honest, I thought it was a girl singing to a girl. You know the song ONE TIME?? Sorry... But the more songs that I listen from JB I thought, you know this guy is not bad. Though its a little annoying to see him winning so many awards.. I guess the fans just love him and won't stop voting. I did the same to Katy Perry so I know how it feels to go crazy okay. Omg Katy Perry and JB are so close, makes me so jealous =_=


His songs are all about girls.. Ahahahaaaa but his new song Pray, now thats one nice song. I really like listening to it and I think what JB is trying to do is to help and make changes too.. I like this kind of people.. Make changes till things get better. HEY his trying! I'm sure everyone knew about the 3 years old girl crying for JB. NOW she's lucky I tell you. How many stars would do that? If I cry for Kris Allen, do you think he'll come and meet me? I'm just joking.. But JB was really nice to come and meet her AND made her dreams come true.. So lucky to meet her favorite star. Bright side for you JB lovers, his coming to Malaysia in April. So hurry and go get your tickets and go crazy..


I don't know much about his book, First Step 2 Forever but its a big hit and its always sold out quickly. Well point is, he makes his fans happy and thats what matters to him. No matter how many haters he has, (I guess he knows.) Well  every one has a mix of love and hate from everyone. We just gotta live with it!


So girls, I hope you enjoy reading this.. Specially for you!


-Jasmin Rayhan-

THE VOICE OUT

It's hard to accept, but you can't change the past. You can't go back and manipulate things to the way you wanted them to happen. Because life'd be meaningless and boring and just not worth living. But you can change the future and that's a beautiful thing about life. Yes, you will make mistakes. And yes, you will have bad days - but as long as you let the past go, you'll have such a gorgeous and bright future ahead of you. Knowing that things were meant to happen. Knowing that each day you will learn something so that you keep growing to be a better person. Life is like a rope, twined in all its complexities and yet weaved into one marvelous stream that you have the chance you use something amazing from. So grab hold of it. Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about.

I got this from a good friend of mine, its really inspiring. 

There is so many different meanings to define LIFE because we have different thoughts about what life is and I really believe that life is all about what a friend of mine just said.




Life is precious and its short. You may hear this many times but its true. So make it last by loving it. We should not stop learning. There are so many things that we can learn other than our mistakes. The world comes with knowledge so make things better for ourselves. Open our minds and heart to new different things and some opportunities only come once. 




Meet new people and start creating. 
Everyone has talent and were all creative. Don't stop doing what you love.




Think what is right. Have opinions. We all have a voice to stand up for ourselves in what we believe in. Many of us are doing it and every one has the right to do so and if you don't like something, change it. Make something interesting for everyone to see and feel great.




To top it off, just be happy. Smile and laugh often because thats the best thing to do at the end of the day, and its the cheapest medicine to cure a broken heart. All emotions are beautiful if you stop comparing one another. Love and care. There's always the brighter side of things. 




-Jasmin Rayhan-

BEAUTY

As a girl, I know that we are very "cliche" with things sometimes... Or maybe always.

We just demand so much and we always have wishes,

well we expect things to always turn out the way we wanted it to be.. 

Not to mention our "off and on" moments (THE PMS).

As a better definition about us girls, were just fragile and emotional and 

we just want to be happy and strong for ourselves and believing that love exist.

In fact, guys find it hard to understand us girls.. 

Lets put it this way, sometimes were just Maths to them or 

maybe harder than solving a Math question, but lets keep it that way :D

Were just different from guys and as I see it we are more insecure than them..

Mostly, its because of the way we look. We judge our beauty often. What is beauty?

I realize that many of us girls always tell ourselves "Im not beautiful, I'm ugly". 

Far too many of us and including me sometimes.. We just want to be beautiful JUST to fit in.

Well as I've said, nobody is born ugly and 

I believe that we shouldn't judge through beauty and so forth hotness 

because this two can't be measured.. Instead we didn't see who we are as in ourselves..

Beauty is in the heart.

THAT is what makes us beautiful.

Its impossible to measure the beauty and hotness because we have our own beauty.. 

Our own dignity and and identity..  Be yourself.. Well I'll admit it that I do have insecurities. 

Having eczema sucks and it would bug me so much and 

I do tell myself that I wanna be like that girl on that magazine.. 

(Don't we used to do that all the time?). 

Seeing how beautiful someone is on the magazine but 

I gotta realize that those girls are touch ups just for the beauty to be shown on the outside 

but their actually just ordinary girls like us.. 

Were the same but we are owning a different heart. 

Which is important to take care of it.

I learn to not be insecure because there's no point on being insecure 

when your not doing anything about it. 

No matter how hard it is, there's always a solution.

Were beautiful for who we are..

Why don't we still keep this word and make things better.. 

We have flaws and were not perfect... Its natural. 

The reason why we don't accept the beauty on the inside its because 

people judge on the outside and gives us mean words just to put us down and feel bad for ourselves. 

Why bother caring about what people have to say about you?

No one has got the right to tell you that
you are not beautiful or good enough other than yourself because the judge is YOU.

People who say nasty words to people about the way they look 

would lead them to being ugly and that's the most ugliest thing, 

which is judging someone where they don't realize that their making themselves ugly.

So why not be nice and start being beautiful on the inside, 

because that's what matters and trust me you'll feel great and as I believe,

Nothing is more beautiful than having a good heart.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

READY FOR 2011

New Year is coming which means.

Everything NEW.

2010 has been a great year for me as I learned and experienced many things. - Which is GREAT!

Ups and downs coming along the way - It NEVER ends.

 Not to mention a great Surprise 17th Birthday from my 2 best girls. - LOVE you both.

 I hope that 2011 would be a better year for each and everyone of us.

Here is my wish to all of you:

We should not be disappointed with ourselves because we are not perfect human beings.

Nobody in this world is perfect.

 We should always try to be better all the time.

 The bright side is that there's always a brand new day for all of us.

We should always hope for the best to come. - Take it as a blessing!

Start something new and great for ourselves.

Take the chance and be happy because its worth it.

Have a great NEW YEAR :)

-Jasmin Rayhan-

PEOPLE JUST WONT STOP

Listening to I'm Not Afraid - Eminem thanks to a best friend of mine.. 

Love you Stephanie Thong :)

Always be happy no matter what life gets you! Thats for sure.

So how many of you have haters.. Haahaaa. 

Everyone got themselves a big bag of haters.

Even Mark Zuckerberg have haters too. More like "enemies".

 Ahhhhh the quote in the movie is so beautiful.

YOU DONT GET TO 500 MILLION FRIENDS,

WITHOUT MAKING A FEW ENEMIES.

I haven't watched the movie THE SOCIAL NETWORK yet, 

but I will soon and hope to learn something good from it. I'm searching for inspirations now.

 Great ideas and as I get to learn those trades too. 

I'm now on a mission to make my dreams a reality. 

Which is to inspire people.

I've learned a lot this week. Okay.. Since SPM ended. 

I've learned so much through working. I'm seeing the real world now (for 3 months actually). 

I love challenges and I take challenges in life every day.

EVERYDAY IS A NEW DAY! :D

I know I'm too young for it (most of you think so) but thats what I wanna do, 

N I like a lot! I love it so much because I love learning.

Its also great because I love meeting new people. PR/Human Resources (its the same right?)

 is just important to me and I'm gaining a lot respects too!

I believe that people should do something that they love doing. 

What could possibly go wrong?

I'm in reality and this are my facts on what I've gone through this couple of weeks.

Sharing my experience and hopefully it somehow reflects on what you think about my post too.

Decisions after decisions. Dilemmas after dilemmas. It wont stop coming back to my mind.

 I've been getting a lot of people who doubted me, people who looked down on me too.

Whats so great about pin pointing on other people?

Have you ever asked yourself are you even better at what your doing? 

Its not really "cool" when people are trying and your the one thats messing it up for them.

Cut off some slacks man. Big talking to people where your not doing well at yourself either.

I know what I want AND I know what I want to do. 

A new year is coming soon and there's always a new resolution.

Stop pushing others and start pushing yourself.

 Call me drama but you don't know what I've been through. 

I'm honest and I want to make a difference out of this.

People taking advantage of you, making you a fool out of yourself..

One thing I learn is to never let others make that happen. 

 "Its a dog-eat-dog world out there" (Friends quote)

Keep on saying "the world is tough". 

Everybody knows that, it goes harder every time

 when you take each step to climb to the top. OBVIOUSLY!

As if I was born yesterday, seriously come on.. 

On the other hand, if you think its because I'm rebel on this. Seriously don't judge.

Instead of telling it to people why not tell it to yourself.

N if you can't handle it. Improvise. What you've caused its what you get,

Thats how it goes.

Sometimes they just don't know when to stop talking until the day you prove them wrong.

Thats the day when your the real winner. N your gonna feel great about it!

Someday I'm gonna prove those Motha b*tches wrong - Peter Chao

Well me too.

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE.

-Jasmin Rayhan-