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Wednesday, August 24, 2011

LOVE IS LOUDER THAN THE PRESSURE TO BE PERFECT

My blog, Perfection is Passion is a blog where I could write about anything I can to inspire people.That was my vision when I first decided to blog and it still is my vision and to that I pursuit it through writing.


Writing changes someone's character because writing makes us express ourselves.
I like expressing myself. I like to understand humanity more and to find my purpose in life as well.
I'm still confuse at some point and I do feel a little out of place sometimes - Just another way of saying I still don't know, but I'm searching. It's one of my goals.


We all have different goals, goals that are high to reach when we put it high to get and we work hard for it and we do whatever it takes to get it. Like getting good grades, winning a goal medal or even get married. - That is a goal too. These are the things that makes life interesting. Life should be amazing no matter how tough it is.


I decided to write PRESSURE TO BE PERFECT because I read a beautiful inspiring story about Demi Lovato and I admired how she could handle her pressure to being perfect. (I will always admire her so much) At the same time, I'm seeing everyone that I know are stopping themselves to being perfect just because they have something that they don't like and its pressuring them. We all have problems and there's always a solution to it no matter what. First off, Nobody is PERFECT and life CANNOT be perfect but we just have this feeling that we want to be perfect.


Being Perfect is just a way to be accepted by everyone. - Anonymous.


We always want the best for ourselves and that we always try and try and sometimes too much pressure could make us lose control and having a mental breakdown. Because we want to be accepted. We all want to feel good about ourselves but insecurity hits us back every time.


 I have insecurities too and I'm insecure about my skin. I have eczema and I hate how dry and scaly my skin can be. It broke me down and wishing that I never had eczema.
 I'm afraid I wont be accepted and I'm afraid I wont be beautiful.


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Every girl in this world wants to be beautiful. I'm upset to know that some girls would starve themselves just because they can't accept their weight and appearance. They can't handle those mean words from other people. They have eating disorders because of that and its blocking them to feel perfect by being normal.


Your not perfect because your not that model in the magazine, your not perfect because your not the girl with the perfect everything. Your not perfect because you don't get what you want and mostly your not perfect because you can't accept yourself. All this are bad thoughts and negatives statement to make us stop believing in ourselves and it brings us down. Always remember to never compare ourselves with someone else.


N whats worst is that it makes us depress. Some people can't handle the pressure around them till they decide to end the pressure in the easy yet a bad way, suicide. People who are depress often feels lonely and they just wish someone else is there to understand them. Their not attention seekers. They just needed someone to listen.


I've known some people who are under depression and its not very nice to know that they would cut both their wrists just to release their pain. I use to have suicidal thoughts myself before. I've gone through a lot of bad things in the past and I even cry myself to sleep.


Crying is not always a sign that your weak, sometimes its just that you've been strong for holding your pain for too long and there's a time where you have to let it go. Well I rather cry than to have suicidal thoughts again. I was stupid enough to Google "HOW TO DIE"
- If your a close friend to me, I'm sure you know that I'm a psycho friend.


Whenever I feel insecure now, I just take it as a challenge and that I would learn to overcome it.
I know I can't be perfect but I try to be and its nothing wrong with trying. I believe that I'm different and special the way I am. For start, always be yourself,
You be the judge to yourself and take every hardships a lesson to learn.  


LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT.
If your born with color blindness, born with freckles, born with an un-perfect feature, born with a bad vision that you need to wear glasses etc .
Still do not stop loving yourself. Don't make the small things put you to waste.


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Make life the fullest and be happy no matter what.
Do something you love doing, maybe paint your room or play music, sing and dance and anything that makes you happy. If you want to be pretty you need a pretty heart.
Start forgiving your enemies, its alright as long as you move on. Ask that guy you like to go out with you or tell the girl that you have a crush on that you love her.


It doesn't matter what you do, just make life a joyful thing and always look at the brighter side of things. 
Believe that there's always a bright side in every darkness.




LOVE is LOUDER than The Pressure to be PERFECT - DEMI LOVATO.


-Jasmin Rayhan-

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

THE ART OF LOVE

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LOVE, is a special day,
WE should celebrate, and appreciate.

A nice song from Kina Grannis though many of us still haven't found the exact right meaning of LOVE.
Actually there is but LOVE has a lot of meaning from many people. 
Different people with different experience of love have different meanings of Love. 
 Love can be anything and its always best to feel in with the heart.


I've always admire love like the movies. 
How simple yet elegant the story line goes especially when it is about Unexpected Love stories and everything looks so easy and simple to get. 


Could you believe it?? Its almost like a fairy tale but in reality, 
Love can be really complicated and nothing like the movies. 
That's why we have love songs to cheer us up!


Songs makes us feel better, that feeling when you sing a long with the lyrics and how sometimes it relates to your life.
Its beautiful, because song writing comes from the heart and sometimes a song can be for that special someone that their inspired to write for. 


Love songs are as beautiful as break up songs. 
The more you feel it the more calm you are and makes us feel easier when were having a hard time.

Its really good to know that were love by someone special and how it motivates us for moving forward. 
Love also helps to motivated us. It keeps us going by being happy. 
So the love quotes are really good, well all quotes are great. 
Their like food our souls. - N it never fails to bright someone up!

The thing about love is that sometimes it might end us up with a broken heart. 
Some love life are great but rare. 
Its nice to know that some people have been loving the same person since the day they first met and their marriage life is great. 
I admire this people, and the fact that it makes the relationship stronger and more admirable and just having one sex partner for the rest of your life. 
Its like the old days, where love seems to be very simple.

Everybody deserves love :)


Jasmin Rayhan.

MY CRAZY MOTHER WHO DRIVES ME CRAZY

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You know that movie called Freaky Friday starring Jamie Lee Curtis and Lindsay Lohan?
A story about a mom and a daughter that doesn't seem to have a good mother daughter relationship and both of them don't seem to understand one another and then they switched bodies because of that Chinese Lady that gave them the fortune cookie.
The good old days when Lindsay Lohan was just as innocent as ever. Sad to see her now.


Movies like this have moral values and I think what the movie is trying to tell us is that to settle a difference we have to communicate and understand each other first. The switching bodies just makes the movie look more interesting, instead of imagining yourself in someone else's shoe.


So my mom told me, well she actually dared me to write a blog post about her (she just got herself a new blog) and putting the blog title as MY CRAZY MOTHER WHO DRIVES ME CRAZY.  Firstly, we all have different types of mothers, I just happen to have a crazy one. - QUOTED BY HER.


Everybody have different types of mothers, you just happen to have a crazy one - Mom.


I gotta admit that what my mom said is true. Well I'm on the Edge of 17 and I really just can't seem to understand what my mom wants from me sometimes. N whats worst is that whenever there's a huge situation,  it always starts with an argument and ends with "You don't understand me at all".
Leaves my mom and I annoyed with each other.


Lets go back to communication, its the key to understand one another right? Well yea that's what I'm lack of sometimes. Bonding doesn't help much when there's no communication and to tell you the truth I'm NOT a rebel kid but I can be really rude at times. Its the limits people, which leads me complaining like any other ordinary girl would do. N its the only way for them to listen (if your lucky that is)
plus girls tend to talk more than guys. So let us talk! *sniff*.


My mom is not an ordinary mom, she's not a housewife either but I use to know her as my hero, someone who is headstrong and bold for herself and was never afraid of the future - Or so I thought. Things change and I understand what my mom went through and whats she's going through now. She got a lot of ups and downs. Times are tough for her and I'm always there to catch her when she falls but sometimes the things I do just seems never enough or satisfying for her.


Typical isn't it? How many of you are going through the same thing as I do now? I let myself clueless and all I can do is just sit and be patient. 


I'm not sure if I have readers who are mothers in my blog but that would be cool to know. I just feel like asking each and everyone of the mothers why is it that all of you have to use "You don't understand me" in every single conversation.
Okay we use that in relationships too and living our boyfriends clueless but that's a whole different thing cuz there's always a kiss and make up when it comes to the boy-girl relationship.


Well as some of us would say, its not really nice to know that mothers think that were not trying. In my part, I tried and I give up and whats worst is that there's no trust. Which brings us the TRUST section and believe me, my parents are strict but sometimes I think they don't know what their doing. - I have weird parents. There are some parts where their wrong but you know, they wouldn't want to admit it - Its cuz their "older". See it all ends with age. RESPECT the ELDERLY. What an advantage, imagine life without age, everybody would want to be the boss.


If I ever have a kid of my own, well I can't tell the future and I think its weird to think about marriage and kids now but just as an example, I would rather just talk things out. Well its easy to say it now to some of you elderly parents would think but I've seen other parents and their kids and they seem alright together. I use to have that but I don't have it anymore. Its personal but I got to put my head up high for it.


KIDS. They wont learn till their TEENAGERS. They are ignorant till they decide to change.


I'm just saying, wouldn't it be better? My mom doesn't  trust me and at the rate I'm going through, its getting tough and pretty annoying. Mom was a girl before isn't it? I'm sure she gives trouble to my grandma (yes, my mom was a rebel kid according to my grandma).


Well I know what she's trying to do, I know. She doesn't want me to end up like her and make the same mistakes. Same goes to all the other mothers in the world. They love their kids and they want the best for them and sometimes they get too obsessed until they start to crack and BOOM!


But face it, its our turn now, to make mistakes (well not the same mistakes as them) that's what teenagers should do, make mistakes (not on purpose) and when were wrong just talk to us. We need you in the end of the day. Like a baby bird that wants to fly so much and when it tries to fly alone the baby bird fell and that's when the mommy bird comes.


I've seen books, articles and talk shows about a woman talking about how kids/teens never understand what a mother has to go through. But hey, it might be our fault at times but its your fault too - at times as well.


I love my mom, I do. Just that sometimes I don't get her and I don't see me doing anything wrong anymore what what I've been through for the past 4 years. It was a tough road for my mom and my siblings and I. But everyday is a new a day and I can always put on my ear plugs when she goes grenade bomb all over me -HAHA I'm kidding. :)


How is your mom like?

-Jasmin Rayhan-

Thursday, July 28, 2011

SMOKING

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Dont worry, this is not gonna be insulting or bad...
 Or at least I hope that it wouldn't change what you think of me.
But I promise this would be something a little different.


There's so many blog post about HOW BAD smoking is and
HOW MUCH people still wouldn't care about it.
I don't have a problem with smokers BUT they can really be self centered at times and
especially people like my parents - since their smokers.


Its funny, smokers get offended really fast and easily pist when some people, as in the non smokers would talk about how bad smoking is and adding on more of their so called "advice".Yes, some people do care.
We don't mean to offend you and basically I'm the type that doesn't offend people when it comes to smoking. At least I'm trying not too.

Question, do smokers actually care about not smoking in front of others who are non smokers?
Some would say yes, some would probably say no. But majority, I'm pretty sure its a BIG NO.

Well, thats not very nice to do. Most of us are alright with it but that doesn't mean you can just smoke infront of us and we have to breathe in your exhale all the time.
Lets just say, its RUDE.


I do know a lot of people who smokes, some actually cares but some are still stubborn and the reason I said self centered is because
whenever I ask them to not smoke on my direction, they answered back with answers like
GO SIT AT SOME PLACE ELSE. With that pist off tone and expression.


 Relax, I just said don't smoke at my direction when theres so many direction for you to smoke.
*face palm*.


The most that I hate are attitude problem smokers.First of all, I don't blame you for smoking cuz its your money that your paying for that pack of cigarette (Right?) but stll that doesn't mean that you dont have to care of others who actually can't stand the smoke.


Thats why restaurants have smoking and non smoking areas.
I understand 2 things.
A few percent of people would say they smoke cuz their addicted and its fun.
Another percent of people would say they smoke due to stress.

The point is if you want smoke, sure go ahead but be considerate at least thats all.


-Jasmin Rayhan-

Saturday, July 23, 2011

FOOTBALL FEVER!



Arsenal, Liverpool and Chelsea were the teams that came to Malaysia to have a friendly match with The Harimau Malaya. 
It was a good game indeed but not really fair as I see it and Malaysia did their best and Safee Sali was of course the hero and the man for the team. (how typical).
I love football and I find that football is a very skillful game and it is not just kicking a ball and getting a goal which most women in the world would think and use that excuse to their man. *facepalm*.
Its not easy as it looks ladies, really is not.


 I was dying to watch Torres and the Chelsea team LIVE but sadly I didn't watch them LIVE but my depressed moment stopped when I realize that the game was nothing but dull and even as a Chelsea fan, THAT IS NOT CALL A GOAL and I wouldn't call that a lucky goal too, but nice try Drogba.  Maybe the referee was afraid of you cuz your so big and that's why he approve that the goal is counted.  A fact about Drogba, his wife is a muslim. So, is he gonna like puasa next month? 
Just wondering.


Oh well, I think Andre Villas needs to plan a better strategy for Chelsea now and they really need to buck up for the Barclays this August. HOLY MOLY I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE BARCLAYS!


Anyway, I'm not here to talk about CHELSEA, ARSENAL OR LIVERPOOL (Or even the Red Devils) I'm here to talk about Harimau Malaya. In fact, Do you ever feel weird when the supporters are wearing a different Jersey but they are supporting Malaysia? 
I DON'T. NOT AT ALL.


Why is it a bad thing? Your giving us a chance to watch these teams LIVE and I find it normal to see us supporters wearing another jersey and screaming GO MALAYSIA.  Plus, were paying for the bloody tickets. Makes sense no? 


Its not that we are not "Semangat" for our own football team, we still love Malaysia but there's really nothing wrong with wearing another Jersey. The same thing happen when MU VS Malaysia.
At least some of us bother to scream our lungs out for the Harimau Malaya.


Yea its weird or maybe BAD to some of  you, but what can we actually do about it?
Especially, What can the Menteri Sukan do too? 


If they don't like the sight of us wearing another Jersey and supporting other team they should really pay more attention to the Malaysian Football Team then because people have the rights to support whoever they want to support. 


They should start building a better platform for them and pay more attention! Malaysian Football is good but not great yet. were always at the mid sea level all the time.
 We are improving but in just a fiddle. 
Ever wonder what makes Chelsea, Liverpool and other football teams in the world great? 
Is the appreciation from their Sports Minister. 


Forgive me if you think I'm wrong but it is a fact and same goes to other sports too.
We want a better Malaysia every time (well BERSIH was a big commotion) and its upset to see that our Malaysian Sports are really lack of attention, ESPECIALLY FOOTBALL.


 So conclusion, Its not the people's fault and Gobal really gotta stop complaining and start doing something. His little speech in the stadium is not gonna make a difference. 
TALK IS CHEAP WHEN THERE'S NO ACTIONS TAKEN.
N he can start by dressing up nicely first than making a statement.


-Jasmin Rayhan-

Thursday, July 7, 2011

WWE



Over the years, I have always been a loyal WWE fan and before you say anything, there ARE girls who watch WWE too. Though of course this show has been scripted and there are some fake actions coming along the way but that still doesn't stop me from watching this.


I love all of their pay per views and though sometimes I get bored watching this but still its entertainment to me and especially when Evan Bourne is smokin hot. - I'm still a girl remember? :D


Whenever I talk about WWE my mind always starts tingling and fast action comes to my mind. The moves and the WWE stars, the hall of famers, (ROWDY ROD PIPER!!) the pay per views and of course
"YOU CAN'T SEE ME!". 


I'm a fan alright and this entertainment is really money making. Have you heard? In just a month, a million of people tune in to watch WWE.


I always feel that girls should learn to wrestle. Yea I know they kept WARNING us with
STAY SAVE, DON'T TRY THIS. Wrestling is cool and I find that it is better than self defense and self defense ain't much of a help if you ask me.


If were about to be rape on the streets or maybe were in danger, we should wrestle those rapist/bad guys so that they'll get nightmares in their sleep. Now wouldn't that be cool? N it makes the women society a better place. Were fearless! Why wasting money on those pepper spray where you can finish them up yourself. What do yea say if we learn to do a Stone Cold Stunner? I'm just sayin'.


If your calling me manly I think there's something wrong with you. Its called DEFENDING OURSELVES.





A few of my favorite wrestlers like Jeff Hardy and Shawn Michaels who is also known as Mr Wrestlemania never fail to impress me. Their awesome people and awesome people deserves to be awesome EXCEPT THE MIZ. I mean, he has a serious mental issue.
I'M THE MIZ AND I'M AWEEEEEEEEEEEESOME.. - Boohoo or like Zack Ryder would say WOOO WOOO~. I am proud of Alex Riley standing up for himself, breaking up his collar from The Miz and being a doormat. Jeeeez, give it a break with your UN-AWESOMENESS already, Miz.
Damn I love head banging through Alex Riley's theme song. Love it to the Max!




Back to Jeff and Shawn. Ahhh its sad when Jeff Hardy is no longer in WWE and Shawn Michaels is a Hall Of Famer now. How I miss the Hardy boys. Matt and Jeff Hardy are so cool! I miss those days where you get to see them as WWE Tag Team Champions and it sucks now that we have that Otunga and Mc Gillicutty to be WWE Tag Team Champions.


Otunga gotta know that NOBODY cares that his wife is American Idol's Jennifer Hudson. I hate Nexus, their so annoying, wait who would like them anyway? Whats that guy name again that use to be the leader of the Nexus? Ooh the one with the crooked up face? Oh yea, Wade Berret. NXT is a nice show too. Training new fresh upcoming WWE Stars.


You know,  JEFF HARDY inspires me the most. He never gives up and his such a dare devil. I remember the time when I watched him Swan Ton Bomb Umaga on Wrestlemania. That was the most highest Swan Ton bomb ever I tell you. - Or maybe he did higher.


Anyways, Umaga passed away 3 years ago. That's just sad. You know whats more sad? Eddie Guerrero :'( *sob*.


I bow down to Mr Stone Cold Steve Austin. His really feisty in his show Toughen-Up. I love it when he hosted Monday (which is Tuesday in Malaysia) Night RAW! He declared POWER TO THE PEOPLE. Hats off to you sir, I love the way you do that beer thing, though I don't drink. You've done a very good job. He brings WWE to a whole new level!


N not to forget the WWE Divas. Yea boys, orgasm much doesn't it? Don't you just love how the Bella Twins making their entrance? I must say they are really annoying sometimes but not as annoying as Vickie Guerrero. CRAP, what a bitch and she is dating Dolf Ziggler. His  "I AM PERFECTION". - Ohhh BORRRRRRRRRRING!! Haha Vickie Guerrero.. EXCUSE MEE!!! Well shut up, bitch nobody wanna hear you talk.


Look at the bright side, Kelly Kelly (My Fav WWE DIVA) is now WWE Diva's Champion. Congrats on her first belt. I couldn't believe myself before that she actually dated that Mike Knox. Unexpected Love I guess and speaking of Unexpected Love, The Undertaker is married to Michelle Mc'cool. WOW.


I remember when I was young I called him DARK MAN. His really dark and his entrance scares me when I was young. I'm not afraid anymore okay, his getting pretty boring. His streaks in Wrestlemania bores me now. I thought Shawm Michaels was gonna break his streaks back then. Ugh oh well, probably it was scripted.


Yea yea yea, I'm sure you'd be thinking why wouldn't I write about THE CHAMP IS HERE! Or THE LEGEND KILLER? One thing, their too common nowadays but I wouldn't mind writing about them since their both still cool.


Randy Orton is HOT. K, done. Nahh I'm joking. I have always love RANDY ORTON since the day he started up on RAW and even when his the villain. CHECK OUT his RKO okay. The best move ever. Randy Orton is definitely The Legend Killer.


Last but not least, JOHN CENA. Well, he makes everyone - even kids fantasize a lot. One thing for sure, DREAMS DO COME TRUE if you work hard for it. N he cheers up little kids who look up to him a lot. He touched more hearts than Justin Bieber would ever do. Even though his too Super Star now with the movies and commercials. But whenever he mark his words, HE REALLY MARK HIS WORDS. That's one thing I like about him. He really mean what he said and I can't wait to see his match with CM PUNK. I'm looking forward to the MATCH.


I'd love to talk more about WWE but if you want to ask me more about it, just ask me in my Formspring. (You can see it in my right side of the blog) I would love to answer your questions. :) But right now,



BED TIME.


-Jasmin Rayhan-

Sunday, June 19, 2011

PORN VS GIRLS

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THIS IS AN 18 ABOVE BLOG POST. Hah, don't say I didn't warn you.

Alright, this maybe common but I just feel like writing this and besides, its been a long time since I've blog and I should start writing my blog again before I don't have anymore readers. Which means my blog is not dead yet and it will never be dead!


I'm sure this is a best and interesting topic to guys and well it is obvious because PORN is something that every guy watches which is also a natural thing for them too and it makes masturbation more interesting. In a simple way to say, a typical guy doesn't think as much as how we girls think due to their amazing EMPTY BOX.


Fellas, please don't be offended but frankly, you were born with an empty box and it has been psychologically proven and porn makes guys fantasize more. Guys need to be fantasize a lot because it is the only way to make them think and to get out from their empty box.


Even gays have gay porn too, I know that sounds wrong to some of you but it is not much of a different and to me, I don't see any problem in guys watching porn and sadly there are some type of girls who are paranoid with their boyfriends just because they watch porn.


Ooookaaay and the most common things that girls are mad about with the "MAN HOOD" which are Games and Porn. Am I right or am I really right? But why? Its like our hood too but ours is Shopping and Male Models.


Your arguing with your boyfriend just because his watching porn? Cmon, get real.


Just put it this way, GUYS NEED PORN. LEAVE THEM ALONE.
Its like their favorite game like C.O.D but in sexual terms. Its a guy thing so stop bugging your boyfriend to stop watching porn and go watch porn with them. - He will be happy, trust me.


Now I'm not being dirty or disagreeing with all of you girls but please understand that you can't feel insecure when it comes to this matter. Its just PORN. DON'T worry he is not comparing you with those Porn Stars. People like Jenna Haze and Maria Ozawa and Jenna Presley are just their fantasy girls.


Besides, their doing us a favor because in future I'm pretty sure you don't want a boring sex life. Girls, admit that we are sexually active as well. So don't be frustrated at all. We have to know that guys love staring and they will always stare and that includes naked women.


N please don't go all blonde and try your luck on suing Naughty America for this - or other porn companies.


Not to mention, which is most importantly it is not something that you should use to argue and making it a reason to break up. If we want to be an understanding girlfriend to your boyfriend you must deal with this. I must say at least 73% of guys watch porn just for getting ideas on sex - and some are just bored.


Porn is just turning people on with their overly perfect sets of bodies. If you won't allow your boyfriend to watch porn just how exactly he would feel if you just look at those hot shirtless male models in the magazines and go "Oh his hot" and you wont stop drooling. Yea, think again because it is similar even though porn is more explicit and sexual. So I say, Let them watch.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

Sunday, May 15, 2011

BERDUA




HEY READERS! Hope your having a good Sunday!


A good friend of mine just made a new single and it would be really nice if all of you would listen to his song BERDUA. Its really good!


Tell me what you think about it and do like his fan page CLICK here.




Alvin Anthony is the most amazing person and his just the most funniest and coolest person to ever hang out with. I swear and his good at making people laughed. Stay tune for him as he will be making a difference in the Music Industry. Support Malaysian Music!! SO STAY TUNE!!




-Jasmin Rayhan-

Saturday, May 14, 2011

THE IN CROWD

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I'm sure that some of you may relate to this post and what I be writing now is about what is really happening to some of us and well, it happen to me before too and I feel that if I don't write about it, I just don't feel right.. So this is an honest post about me and I hope to reach out to those who faced the same thing. 


Some of us tend to fit in and not be ourselves around people just so to be accepted and you just want to have a good time like any other person. Facing this problem is normal and at the same time it is just a part of us trying to figure out ourselves more. Were clueless and were asily confuse because were not perfect and I was one of those who really want to be accepted and well of course everybody wants to be accepted and there's nothing wrong about it too because you just don't want to have the feeling to be alone.


To let go of that feeling of being alone, all you got to do is to just be yourself. 
Forget about the things that made you stop believing in yourself because its not worth it.
I know right? Easy to say and all but I know, it takes time to some us. 
We may have our own problems and some of us don't look forward for a new day just because we lost faith in ourselves and there's no hope for you to have. 


So just be yourself.  Because being you is the best thing to ever be. 
There's no point on fitting in with someone who doesn't care either. 
Its nice to have everything sometimes and there are reasons on why sometimes we don't get what we want. You may have a bad day and of course you will have a good day back too. 


Its how it is and we just have to be ready for it.
N when someone loves you for who you are, a best friend or a lover, just appreciate it because their the ones who truly knows the real you and accepts you for who you are. :)


-Jasmin Rayhan-

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

WHY?

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A few days back when I was just surfing the web and indulging myself in Facebook, I saw this video of a girl cutting a girls hair, apparently these girls are still in uniform. High School Girls gone wild? Facebook is like the fastest news ever to know everything and just today I saw it on the newspaper about the incident, sadly it was in Chinese. After knowing the whole story from a friend, well I'm just ashamed.


After watching that video, I feel that it is seriously an embarrassment and it felt as though humanity is about to vanish especially to the girls around us. I never thought that girls these days could go to the extend nowadays. It seems so cheap and its giving us girls a bad name. What's so nice about bullying? Please realize that it is not a trend and it makes you look even more dumb. Your parents would be devastated and people around you will just give you the bad impression. I don't know why it just satisfy you bullies by just bullying someone. Do you sleep well when you bully someone and making someone feel miserable? 
A person with a lot of hatred inside can never be a someone because it doesn't make you a hero but just another low life loser. 


Bullying is not fun and so is hurting someone else. I don't see the point what's so nice about doing it to someone else but I guess you just don't get enough loving from your parents, well that's one of the top reasons, even Oprah says so, maybe your just not educated enough and the best thing you could do to satisfy yourself is to take the scissors and cut someone's hair.Your just really that dumb and what your getting now is a lot of people cursing you to die. That is the life of a bully alright, and the most saddest thing ever, 
THE BULLY WAS A GIRL. 
Cmon what the hell is your problem? Girl you really are retarded. N as for the person who video the incident. Well what more to say, they do things without thinking. Look what it got to now.


As for the victim. I wouldn't want to give you the winning point much but I think everybody should know, when your facing that situation you gotta at least stand up for yourself. Crying will never make things easier. Put your feet down and don't let anybody touch you. Know your rights and don't be afraid because your just dealing with another human. You may get hurt but act fast and take the action straight.
Their going to pay the price twice and what goes around comes around. It all takes some guts. 


Lets not destroy humanity people and lets not do such foolish things. 
Nobody is perfect but hurting someone doesn't make you a winner. 
That girl is in deep shit but hey, she deserves the bitter medicine.


-Jasmin Rayhan-