PORN VS GIRLS

THIS IS AN 18 ABOVE BLOG POST. Hah, don't say I didn't warn you.

Alright, this maybe common but I just feel like writing this and besides, its been a long time since I've blog and I should start writing my blog again before I don't have anymore readers. Which means my blog is not dead yet and it will never be dead!


I'm sure this is a best and interesting topic to guys and well it is obvious because PORN is something that every guy watches which is also a natural thing for them too and it makes masturbation more interesting. In a simple way to say, a typical guy doesn't think as much as how we girls think due to their amazing EMPTY BOX.


Fellas, please don't be offended but frankly, you were born with an empty box and it has been psychologically proven and porn makes guys fantasize more. Guys need to be fantasize a lot because it is the only way to make them think and to get out from their empty box.


Even gays have gay porn too, I know that sounds wrong to some of you but it is not much of a different and to me, I don't see any problem in guys watching porn and sadly there are some type of girls who are paranoid with their boyfriends just because they watch porn.


Ooookaaay and the most common things that girls are mad about with the "MAN HOOD" which are Games and Porn. Am I right or am I really right? But why? Its like our hood too but ours is Shopping and Male Models.


Your arguing with your boyfriend just because his watching porn? Cmon, get real.


Just put it this way, GUYS NEED PORN. LEAVE THEM ALONE.
Its like their favorite game like C.O.D but in sexual terms. Its a guy thing so stop bugging your boyfriend to stop watching porn and go watch porn with them. - He will be happy, trust me.


Now I'm not being dirty or disagreeing with all of you girls but please understand that you can't feel insecure when it comes to this matter. Its just PORN. DON'T worry he is not comparing you with those Porn Stars. People like Jenna Haze and Maria Ozawa and Jenna Presley are just their fantasy girls.


Besides, their doing us a favor because in future I'm pretty sure you don't want a boring sex life. Girls, admit that we are sexually active as well. So don't be frustrated at all. We have to know that guys love staring and they will always stare and that includes naked women.


N please don't go all blonde and try your luck on suing Naughty America for this - or other porn companies.


Not to mention, which is most importantly it is not something that you should use to argue and making it a reason to break up. If we want to be an understanding girlfriend to your boyfriend you must deal with this. I must say at least 73% of guys watch porn just for getting ideas on sex - and some are just bored.


Porn is just turning people on with their overly perfect sets of bodies. If you won't allow your boyfriend to watch porn just how exactly he would feel if you just look at those hot shirtless male models in the magazines and go "Oh his hot" and you wont stop drooling. Yea, think again because it is similar even though porn is more explicit and sexual. So I say, Let them watch.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

BERDUA

HEY READERS! Hope your having a good Sunday!


A good friend of mine just made a new single and it would be really nice if all of you would listen to his song BERDUA. Its really good!


Tell me what you think about it and do like his fan page CLICK here.




Alvin Anthony is the most amazing person and his just the most funniest and coolest person to ever hang out with. I swear and his good at making people laughed. Stay tune for him as he will be making a difference in the Music Industry. Support Malaysian Music!! SO STAY TUNE!!




-Jasmin Rayhan-

THE IN CROWD

I'm sure that some of you may relate to this post and what I be writing now is about what is really happening to some of us and well, it happen to me before too and I feel that if I don't write about it, I just don't feel right.. So this is an honest post about me and I hope to reach out to those who faced the same thing. 

Some of us tend to fit in and not be ourselves around people just so to be accepted and you just want to have a good time like any other person. Facing this problem is normal and at the same time it is just a part of us trying to figure out ourselves more. Were clueless and were asily confuse because were not perfect and I was one of those who really want to be accepted and well of course everybody wants to be accepted and there's nothing wrong about it too because you just don't want to have the feeling to be alone.

To let go of that feeling of being alone, all you got to do is to just be yourself. 

Forget about the things that made you stop believing in yourself because its not worth it.

I know right? Easy to say and all but I know, it takes time to some us. 

We may have our own problems and some of us don't look forward for a new day just because we lost faith in ourselves and there's no hope for you to have. 

So just be yourself.  Because being you is the best thing to ever be. 

There's no point on fitting in with someone who doesn't care either. 

Its nice to have everything sometimes and there are reasons on why sometimes we don't get what we want. You may have a bad day and of course you will have a good day back too. 

Its how it is and we just have to be ready for it.

N when someone loves you for who you are, a best friend or a lover, just appreciate it because their the ones who truly knows the real you and accepts you for who you are. :)

-Jasmin Rayhan-

WHY?

A few days back when I was just surfing the web and indulging myself in Facebook, I saw this video of a girl cutting a girls hair, apparently these girls are still in uniform. High School Girls gone wild? Facebook is like the fastest news ever to know everything and just today I saw it on the newspaper about the incident, sadly it was in Chinese. After knowing the whole story from a friend, well I'm just ashamed.

After watching that video, I feel that it is seriously an embarrassment and it felt as though humanity is about to vanish especially to the girls around us. I never thought that girls these days could go to the extend nowadays. It seems so cheap and its giving us girls a bad name. What's so nice about bullying? Please realize that it is not a trend and it makes you look even more dumb. Your parents would be devastated and people around you will just give you the bad impression. I don't know why it just satisfy you bullies by just bullying someone. Do you sleep well when you bully someone and making someone feel miserable? 

A person with a lot of hatred inside can never be a someone because it doesn't make you a hero but just another low life loser. 

Bullying is not fun and so is hurting someone else. I don't see the point what's so nice about doing it to someone else but I guess you just don't get enough loving from your parents, well that's one of the top reasons, even Oprah says so, maybe your just not educated enough and the best thing you could do to satisfy yourself is to take the scissors and cut someone's hair.Your just really that dumb and what your getting now is a lot of people cursing you to die. That is the life of a bully alright, and the most saddest thing ever, 

THE BULLY WAS A GIRL. 

Cmon what the hell is your problem? Girl you really are retarded. N as for the person who video the incident. Well what more to say, they do things without thinking. Look what it got to now.

As for the victim. I wouldn't want to give you the winning point much but I think everybody should know, when your facing that situation you gotta at least stand up for yourself. Crying will never make things easier. Put your feet down and don't let anybody touch you. Know your rights and don't be afraid because your just dealing with another human. You may get hurt but act fast and take the action straight.
Their going to pay the price twice and what goes around comes around. It all takes some guts. 

Lets not destroy humanity people and lets not do such foolish things. 

Nobody is perfect but hurting someone doesn't make you a winner. 

That girl is in deep shit but hey, she deserves the bitter medicine.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

MALAYSIAN SLANGS

Question : hi jasmin, i'm doing a coursework given by my lecturer about diff malaysian slangs. what are the meaning of these words "lopek", "doh", "liao" and how to use them. if you wouldn't mind, give me more slangs, thank you. p/s: you're pretty

Whoa... Isn't it weird to make your coursework through formspring? Might as well meet me in person right?? Well theres nothing much I can say about Malaysian slangs because its too normal and we use it everyday. I say aiya all the time.. I think.... Slangs are just slangs. Im not sure if their meanings to some of them.. It just somehow completes our sentence. Malaysia kan? Sorry if Im not much of a help.

This is one of the best formspring question that I have so far for this month.


So my answer is sorta not relevant.
Sorry to the person who ask me this question but I sure hope he/she will do a good job on the assignment! 
After reading this question again and I think this is gonna be interesting to write about.
I remembered theres this guy who shout out loud to his friend "EH DEI~!!'' 
So I was like, what is dei?? Oh, should've known its just another ordinary slang. N so the next day, I called my friend dei. Hahaaa. 


As you know, us Malaysians. Were really special don't you think? 
Its true, were different from the others and our ENGLISH are pretty outstanding.. 
In a way I'm sure you know what I meant about "outstanding" because at the very end of our sentence (mostly) there is always a lah. It may be called a term and also in Chinese I guess that's where LAH is came from. Malaysia is a multi racial country and we always mix a lot of multi race stuff all together.


Its like the backbone of our English. Hahahaa. Its so common that even we don't care about it. 
Because thats how we speak! I wouldn't say originality but slangs happen to be a part of us and we use it a lot.
Like AIYA, that is when we say OH NO or OH MAN this is not good.


It is preferably called Manglish and the reason why we start using slangs are because we Malaysians have various types of language, BM, Mandarin, Cantonese, Tamil etc. We bottle a lot of things up.

It is because of the other language, our English is pretty much been mix by it and so thats why its called Manglish. 
But basically it is also called rojak. Rojak is in BM by the way. (Bahasa Melayu).


But at least our pronunciation is not that bad either. 
To me, I think that theres no explanation or why must we use the slang so much.
Because it is what we use and we love using it. Its something common and normal too.


Just like the quote, Were different because were special :)


-Jasmin Rayhan-

JUSTICE

Do we still serve for justice?

 Or at least making things better for each and everyone of us nowadays?

Must it always end up with hatred and revenge? 

Why no love anymore?

I know right, you would be thinking 

"this is bullshit".

Sometimes, I just feel so disappointed with humanity these days, especially the shallow ones. 

Oh you know what I mean, the ones who doesn't actually think before they speak and it disappoint me so much because it is always ending up with hating each other and thinking that their better than one another.

 Its so endless. I mean, give it a rest already. 

Theres many more better things to do and to think about.

Unless your REALLY that shallow and competitive.

If your so competitive, at least compete with the ones who are worth to be compete with.

Its no point winning all the time, loosing makes you learn more. 

I'm facing shits, so I might be talking shits as well but at least for what I think.

I realize that a fair game play doesn't exist anymore or at least no biasness would be nice.

If its so hard then why follow your ego?

Nobody is perfect and we have the right to actually stand up for something. Right?  

Well theres bias everywhere now and that is a huge mess up. 

Everybody are screw ups at the end of the day. Hahaa kidding. - See I'm talking shits.

Because the world has gone for greed and much more unpleasant things. 

It seems that being good is bad and whatever you do is never enough or maybe you've been cheated on. 

But that doesn't mean we cant stop it. 

Why not use our moral values and filling up our satisfactions by doing some good deeds?

Its better that way. Because people will like you and when people like you

DON'T YOU WANNA EARN SOME RESPECT INSTEAD? 

Think about it.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

EMOTION

As you all know, I love kids. Who doesn't? Well if you don't,

THAT'S JUST WRONG.

Its really a joy when you see kids smile, I feel great working with kids.

I like listening to them and how they think having so much fun is important.

It makes my day and I'm happy for that.

I have a nice childhood, a very beautiful one and 

I remembered how Christina Aguilera always makes me feel pretty. 

That everything is gonna be alright. Because you don't tend to think about anything so much.

The most important thing is you. 

KIDS are the new faces of the world, well at least I think so. 

I don't need disagreements on that either. I just feel its true.

Yea I know, I'M SORRY.

Its been a long, well I wouldn't say a decade time since I've updated.

I'm back to blogging. FOR REAL.

Because this blog deserves the attention.

 I still do have many request on certain blog posts ideas. Thank you I appreciate it.

I'm just too lazy before and now I would want to change and make sure that I respond back to your requests and maybe MUCH more of the little notes and quotes 

on which I think its inspiring and maybe writing stories here too. 

I love writing. I love reading. I still do, and I will always do.

There's just so many things all of the sudden and I do wish to blog about everything

 but I wouldn't wanna be drama, well I was acting drama and after what I did, I realize that I was feeling selfish for myself and I was self centered of some certain things that I'm not satisfied about. We just gotta know that we don't always get what we want. I guess I forgot about how blessed and grateful I am to have everything and I feel that to repay what I did. I should make a fresh new start.

 I've been so passionate these days. I've been helpful and I've been sacrificing a lot of my time for someone who is well to say, a part of my family. First off, I feel that the only way to live a good life is to do something nice for someone and that someone would do something nice for you back. 

No matter how big or small the token is. Appreciate it, or else you just wont feel good. 

I feel like as if there are a million of emoticons in me now.

I'm just so happy. Well, its good to be happy.

:)

- Jasmin Rayhan - 

LITTLE NOTE: DILEMMA

Would you rather be doing what you love so much and be far apart from the people you love or be with the people you love and do what you are qualified to

but it was not really your dream but a good choice?

The choices that you have to put in life, ends a dilemma and you feel confuse.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

LITTLE NOTE : COMMUNICATION AND UNDERSTANDING

A little note about communication and understanding.


It is a very common thing to talk about and we do need to use it a lot in our daily lives.
Especially working, as I see it on my job that is.
Two things.
Either they LOVE you or they HATE you.


First impression is important and thats one way to let someone judge you,
since some people doesn't practice to NOT judge a book by its cover.

-Jasmin Rayhan-

STANDING ON A HALLWAY

Do you ever feel to always be alone where no one can ever find you,

sitting on a dark place, hearing nothing but only you breathing and 

seeing a little bit of light coming through from a small window, or maybe not.

Just because you want to leave and be in a place where only you would fit in 

because you want to get out from the bad things that happen lately.

You loose your grip and you just want to be all by yourself. 

And you find that it is easier to think and holding back the time.

So sorrow, you wonder to yourself when is all this going to stop.

I'm not actually being emo right now.

 I'm just trying to express a feeling out of the picture on top.

Its all in the heart :)

-Jasmin Rayhan-